Sunday, June 02, 2013

Universal Holy Hour of Eucharistic Adoration (2 June 2013, 11pm, Singapore time)

The Holy Father will be leading a worldwide hour of Eucharistic adoration today in Rome at 5pm (which is 11pm, Singapore time). There will be Holy Hour of prayer at Queen of Peace Church as well, for those of you who wish to join in. If you can't make it because it is too late, you can still join the universal church in prayer at home. That's the beauty of being Catholic isn't it?  :)

(Photo credit: CNS photo/Paul Haring)
Lastly, sharing with you a hymn which you can use in your reflection during Holy Hour. This is my personal favourite - a lovely, lovely hymn to be savoured slowly.


Ave Verum Corpus
Ave, ave, verum corpus 
natum de Maria Virgine, 
Vere passum immolatum
in Cruce pro homine,
Cujus latus perforatum
unda fluxitet sanguine,
Esto nobis praegustatum
in mortis examine.
Hail,true body
born of the Virgin Mary,
Who truly suffered, sacrificed
on the Cross for man,
Whose pierced side overflowed
with water and blood,
Be for us a foretaste
In the test of death.

Hungry, and happy

Sorry, I have been slacking on the posts but today is such a huge feast for the Catholic Church and we had a pretty good session, so I felt we had to share.

Today is Corpus Christi - Feast of the Body and Blood of Christ. Angele prepared a really good session that helped us to reflect beyond the fact that Christ died for us, and left the wonderful gift of the Eucharist - his Body and Blood - to nourish us. The question is: do we hunger for him? Do we yearn to receive him each time we come to worship at mass? Or are we so 'filled' with busy schedules and things that temporarily makes us "full" and "happy", but ultimately doesn't give us any nourishment and instead makes us more and more tired each day, feel emptier inside and draw us further and further away from God?


Each of us have a different and unique spiritual journey which we walk individually with God. Even when we stay away from church or are lukewarm in our faith, Jesus is still waiting for us to open the doors of our hearts to him. All we need really is to crank open the door - even just a little - to let Him in bit by bit, day by day and fill our lives with his goodness. And the Eucharist is that spiritual nourishment that can help strengthen our faith journey.

Jesus promised us food that will satisfy and water that will quench our thirst. So be open to this promise - to seek Him daily wherever we go and bring Him to those whom we meet each day, since we have Him in us when we partake in holy communion. At the end of each mass, we are sent forth to "glorify the Lord by our lives". To glorify God doesn't mean we stay away from other non-Christians and huddle among ourselves. We ought to go and share Christ with others by our actions. Not that we have to adopt the ways of the world - no! It means doing the will of God even when it is difficult, bearing problems that come our way with a smile and a good sense of humour while acknowledging the difficulties we face. No one would want to get to know God if they see us Christians always moody, complaining, grumpy and 'sian'. The key to facing challenges and difficulties is to trust God completely to help us in our time of need, to believe that He always answers our prayers in the way He knows that is the best for us and at a time of His choosing. 

So, even if you are at a point in your life when you don't feel like God is answering your prayers, or there are too many things bothering you and you feel you are slacking in your spiritual life, take heart and have faith. Spend some time in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to give you the grace to come back to God, to receive the Eucharist, to strengthen you on your journey with Him. And pray to always hunger for Jesus Christ in your life.

I'll like to leave you with a quote and a song, which sums up today's session well. 

“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in you.” - St. Augustine of Hippo

Hungry (Falling on my Knees) 

by Kathryn Scott


Hungry, I come to you
For I know You satisfy
I am empty, but I know
Your love does not run dry

So I wait for you
So I wait for you

I'm falling on my knees
Offering all of me
Jesus, You're all this heart is living for

Broken, I run to You
For your arms are open wide
I'm weary, but I know
Your touch restores my life

So I wait for you
So I wait for you

I'm falling on my knees
Offering all of me
Jesus, You're all this heart is living for

So I wait for you
So I wait for you
So I wait for you

I'm falling on my knees
Offering all of me
Jesus, You're all this heart is living for

Help, I'm falling on my knees
Offering all of me
Jesus, You're all this heart is living for

Hungry, I come to you
For I know You satisfy
~~~~

Monday, May 06, 2013

What's in a smile?

I was attending a talk by Fr JJ Fenelon last Saturday on liturgy, and something he said strike me:

At the final blessing, we are sent forth "to glorify the Lord" by our lives. Which is why even if we offer a smile or a greeting to people we meet, we are in fact passing on Christ to others.

Wow! Have you ever thought about that?

So I did an experiment: on Sunday, when I was doing my hike training, I tried smiling and greeting people whom I came across along the way. Most people either avoid eye contact or look away, but there are those who returned a smile and a greeting. I remembered in particular an old uncle whom I first came across at the Tanjong Rhu park connector, and later again at the Marina Bay area (he was cycling). He recognised me and said "hi" again the second time around.

I think many people are shy or surprised when a stranger greet them or smile at them, because it's not that common here in our country. It's kinda sad, don't you think? We should be happy to pass on a greeting - and Christ - to people we meet, be it a stranger or a schoolmate or workplace colleague whom we don't know very well.

Maybe you can start your own little "daily experiment" and share your results with us.

Saturday, May 04, 2013

A Marian Prayer to learn

I saw this from ShareCatholic's Facebook page and wanted to share with you. Set it with one of my favourite drawing of Mother Mary (can't remember where I saw it, so sorry for not attributing to the correct source).


Inviting you to pray this prayer daily during this month of May. =)

Thursday, May 02, 2013

May is the month of Mary!

(Image courtesy of happysaints.com)

Here's a little video by Fra. Joseph Mary (Haha, nice name... he has both St. Joseph and Mother Mary!) about the Immaculate Conception. Why do we give this title - which effectively means "conceived perfectly and without flaw" - to Mother Mary? What is the biblical origins of this title?

This video will give you the answer.


Pope Francis' message on the Feast of St. Joseph

Labour Day (1 May) was also the Feast of St. Joseph, Jesus' earthly father who is also known as the patron saint of workers. Pope Francis delivered a wonderful message about the importance and dignity of work on the feastday. He noted that in many countries, young people face unemployment and he urged leaders of the world to look into create jobs for people. The full message can be read here - doesn't take 5 mins to read, and I encourage you to read it.

In particular, he had this to say to you:

"And then I would like to speak especially to you young people: be committed to your daily duties, your study, your work, to relationships of friendship, to helping towards others; your future also depends on how you live these precious years of your life. Do not be afraid of commitment, of sacrifice, and do not look with fear towards the future; keep your hope alive: there is always a light on the horizon."

In our country, we do not dream of a time where there is a lack of opportunities for work, but in so many countries this is not the case. So before we complain that school is tough and work is difficult, let us thank God for the opportunities that we have been given in this land, and pray for those people who don't have as much opportunities as us - that their lives take a turn for the better.



Love in a box

So inspired by Fr Aloysius Ong's homily on Sunday that I made this today... (photo courtesy of Wikipedia)


"I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another.

This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

- John 13:34 and 35

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Today's little reminder... From Pope Francis

Here's little something posted by Ignatian Press on Facebook. (=

Friday, April 26, 2013

What pierces your heart?

I just saw this drawing about vocation and went "wow, God you are amazing! Another blessing to us this week??".

He is so generous, isn't He? =)

Some of you may know I am looking for a job now, and searching in my heart the kind of job I want to do next that allows me to make a difference in the world. And this drawing speaks volumes to me.

Even if you are still studying in school, this one is for you. Whatever course you choose, and whatever subject you study, look towards those that speak to your heart. Because that is probably what God intends for you. Because He would have put that in your DNA when He made you.

I never did very well in my studies but I really started taking greater interest in studying when I went to the university and took courses I liked in the Arts & Social Sciences faculty. I also enjoyed my junior college years, when I did Art and Literature. That was when I knew I had a flair in arts related subjects and that was where my heart sings.

It has been like this in the past 15 years at work: doing work that I enjoy, using my gifts (I hope) for His glory. And God has blessed me with wonderful work experiences.

I am near to getting a new job - something that speaks to me - and I ask you to pray for me, for discernment and for a sign that this is the correct direction to head in my next adventure.

If you have any prayer request, feel free to leave it in the comments section.

Let's pray for each other!

P/S: image courtesy of musician Jackie Francois' Facebook. Drawn by Bill Donaghy

Thursday, April 25, 2013

More on picking yourself up

Wow. It keeps coming, doesn't it?

My last entry was about being under-appreciated and today a friend of mine came to me with the same problem that I had on Tuesday.

God doesn't give you a problem for nothing. I truly believe in "God-incidence" - coincidences that happen to you, which is actually part of God's plan to bless someone else.

And so I shared with her about focusing on what is important in her life, instead of which areas in her life that she feels under-appreciated.

And then I saw today's first reading from 1st letter of St. Peter. It's quite apt really, and a timely reminder that we must first submit to God in humility, so He can raise us up at the appropriate time.

So here is part of the reading.
I hope this blesses you.

"Beloved:
Clothe yourselves with humility in your dealings with one another, for

God opposes the proud but bestows favor on the humble.

So humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.

Cast all your worries upon him because he cares for you.

Be sober and vigilant. Your opponent the Devil is prowling around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

Resist him, steadfast in faith, knowing that your brothers and sisters throughout the world undergo the same sufferings.The God of all grace who called you to his eternal glory through Christ Jesus will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you after you have suffered a little.

To him be dominion forever. Amen."

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Choices

Hi all, it's Tuesday and soon the "mid-week valley" - as I like to call Wednesday - would be here.

I was feeling kinda down just now because of a short argument, and it made me feel under-appreciated.

Then I recalled last Sunday's session with Sr Kim and Sr Wendy from the Daughters of St Paul Society about gratitude with what God has given you, and using them to the greatest purpose. And I remembered what Angele had put on her FB wall after the session:

"If you have to choose: to be angry at what you don't have or grateful for what you have, what would be your choice?"

Indeed, when I look at my list, I know I am blessed with far more than what I deserve.

So, a tip to share with you: in your prayer time tonight make a list of what you are grateful for in your life today (or if you already have that list from Sunday's session, whip it out and look again). Put it in your wallet. When you hit a situation like what I had today, take it or and remind yourself that you can focus on what God had blessed you with and use them for His glory.

Have a blessed rest of the day!

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Happy Vocation Sunday!

I am sitting in front of our Lady's statue at the grotto and noticed this little creature nibbling at the leaves of a shrub. And it reminded me of this verse in the psalm:

"Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. " - Psalm 150:6

Yes, even this caterpillar is praising God, trying to grow outta itself so it becomes a beautiful butterfly!

As long as we are living the vocation God is pointing us to, we are praising God.

Friday, April 12, 2013

Abraham's trust


I mentioned in my last post that we shared about Abraham, Mary and Thomas and their faith in God during Sunday's session.  

I would like to invite you to take a closer look at Abraham's faith.

Christians all over acknowledge Abraham as the Father of Faith. To find out why this is so, read Genesis 12 and 22 for the stories about God calling Abraham to go to the Promised Land, and sacrifice of Isaac. Here's something I wanna share from Genesis 12:

"Leave your country, your relatives, and your father's house and go to a land which I am going to show you..."

The bold emphasis is mine. 

Did you notice how this was phrased? God doesn't tell Abraham where that piece of land is. He just said to go to a land... It's a land... somewhere.... And yet, Abraham up and walks. And he was 75! Think about the courage and the faith Abraham had to do this at such an old age!

And again, in Genesis 22, God tested Abraham by telling him to take Isaac - the son whom God gave to him in his old age - and sacrifice him in the land of Moriah. And when Isaac asked where the lamb for the sacrifice is, Abraham's response was: "God will himself will provide one."

I don't think Abraham's words were just bravado. He truly believed that God will provide the lamb. He trusted God. The fact that he even took the first step towards Moriah showed how much faith and trust he had in God. 

Certainly, he must have done this with a heavy heart - probably not understanding why God would command him to sacrifice the son whom God himself gave. 

Does that sound familiar? Are there times when things happen to you, and you wonder: why, God? Why me? Why did this horrible thing have to happen to me? I don't understand.

It's times like these that it's useful for us to refer back to Genesis 12 and 22, and take Abraham as an example: to take that first step towards the unknown and trust in God anyway. To trust and believe that He will himself will provide for us. When we are troubled. When we are weak. When we are hurt. When we feel we can't carry on.

And, to pray for grace to trust God, when we feel doubt in our hearts. Because, sometimes, trusting God can be a very daunting and scary thing, especially in things that mean a lot to us. But I wanna leave you with this thought:

I love nature, and when I travel I like to photograph wild flowers that I see along the way. Here's one.
Why do I love looking at wild flowers? 

It's because, through them, I learn a little about the nature of God: how precise and careful he is in his creation. The blend of colors in every petal - from white, blending into pale pink, then light purple, then a brilliant and brighter shade of purple. And it always looks beautiful.

If God can be so precise and careful with even a wild flower, what about me and my life? Would he be sloppy about it? I highly doubt it.

So, trust that the God of precision and perfection will provide you with nothing less than the best. 

Just look at Abraham.

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Faith is...

Good morning, everyone!

Here's something I hope will bless your day: in our session on Sunday, Angele shared with us from Hebrews 11:1 about faith -

"To have faith is to be sure of the things we hope for, to be certain of the things we cannot see."


We also looked at the actions of three people - Abraham, Mary and Thomas (yes, even The Doubting Thomas!) to learn more about what faith is (more about that in the next few posts).

Meanwhile, I found this from Crosscards.com, which gives a very practical lesson about putting faith into action.



I hope it blesses your day.

love, bernie


Tuesday, April 09, 2013

Beautiful!

Saw this on The Divine Mercy Facebook page and had to share it with you guys.


Isn't it beautiful?!

This photo was taken on the Sunday that just passed (7 April) in Mindanao, Philippines. It was the Feast of Divine Mercy, and this was a celebration of the feast. 

Seeing this picture, it really feels like God was speaking to the people present there, as well as  you and I who have the privilege to see this photo. 

In case you wanna know more about the Divine Mercy and how to pray the chaplet, click to read more. These are the three messages of the Divine Mercy:


A— Ask for His Mercy. God wants us to approach Him in prayer constantly, repenting of our sins and
asking Him to pour His mercy out upon us and upon the whole world.

B— Be merciful. God wants us to receive His mercy and let it flow through us to others. He wants us to
extend love and forgiveness to others just as He does to us.

C— Completely trust in Jesus. God wants us to know that the graces of His mercy are dependent upon our trust. The more we trust in Jesus, the more we will receive.

Another thing I learnt about the Divine Mercy is that Jesus feels very sad about people who are lukewarm in faith. So let's pray for our friends and family who are lukewarm in their faith, or perhaps even for own healing if we are lukewarm in our faith.

Remember: we just have to ask for Jesus' mercy. Nothing is impossible with God.

Monday, April 08, 2013

Hi there!

I'm trying my hand at this, blogging and sharing our faith with you, dear YM. =) so please welcome me! (I hear distant applause, haha)

Today is the Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord, which is traditionally celebrated on March 25. But because that fell on Holy Week this year, the church shifted it to today - April 8.

Why is this such an important solemnity that our Church has to create a special day to commemorate it?
Well, let's just say... if Annunciation didn't happen, and Mary didn't say 'yes' to God's invitation to be Jesus' mother... we won't even be having this YM blog, would we? =)

Makes me wonder how often God invites you and I to partner him in his plans, don't you think?

Found a cute little image on happysaints.com, one of my favourite sites these days. Feel free to visit the site - this artist does really cute images of saints and major feasts of the Catholic Church daily.
Enjoy!
+ love,
bernie

Friday, November 18, 2011

catholic websites

Its been a long while since anyone has blogged here..

I was reading and surfing the web for good sites to read, when a good friend of mine recommended quite a number of interesting catholic websites with interesting articles and resources.

Let me list out a few:

1. http://www.catholicculture.org/
2. http://lifeteen.com/
3. http://catholicexchange.com/
4. http://www.catholicintl.com/

Do take a look at each of them. You might be able to find something that relates to you.

Let me just share an article from Catholic Culture, titled Grace & Rationalization: Closely Linked. I studied Sociology as a major in university and theories are all I studied. Of course, I cant escape from rationalization, the basis of many things. When reading this article, it suddenly dawned on me how fine the line that separates grace and rationalization, yet also blurs the separation of both. It has put a new perspective in looking at how these 2 go parallel to each other, somehow. I have copied the article here, do take the time to read it. (:





Grace and Rationalization: Closely Linked
By Dr. Jeff Mirus November 17, 2011 8:28 PM

In studying the Catholic doctrine on grace, a fascinating connection emerges between rationalization and grace—or rather resistance to grace. I believe this explains quite a bit of what we instinctively sense about those who live and foster immoral lifestyles. It explains why those who are sensitive to these things always wonder what people are running away from when they come up with the usual inadequate reasons for their behavior.

The Catholic doctrine of grace holds first that grace is offered to all men, second that we are incapable of doing any good thing in a meritorious way without it, and third that we are nonetheless fully responsible if we do evil instead. Here’s how it works:
God gives us a grace which causes the intellect to recognize some good and the will to take an initial complacency in that good.

Recognizing this, we either initially resist the grace through the free exercise of our will, or we do not resist it but instead initially simply do nothing at all.
If we do nothing at all, the grace moves us toward the good and, utilizing the power of grace, our own wills freely choose the completion of the necessary good action in cooperation with the grace.

But if we initially resist, the grace that has been given fails in its effect, and we choose to sin. We are capable of doing this under our own power because sin is a deficiency, and man is capable of deficiency unaided by grace.

Now note what resistance to grace consists of. It consists of a turning of the will away from the good God has brought to our attention through grace. And part of this turning occurs when the will commands the intellect to cease to recognize the goodness it has apprehended.

Then the intellect serves the will either by a simple darkening or, more likely, by the exercise of its natural ability but in such a way as to satisfy the will’s command that what was momentarily apprehended as good is really not good at all, or at least not a necessary good. This, of course, is the beginning of rationalization.

If we are habitually properly responsive to grace, we learn to recognize this sort of rationalization in ourselves, either looking back on earlier situations, or in present moments of weakness. Those who are habitually responsive to grace also perceive it very clearly in those who are not. But it remains very difficult to convince people that they are rationalizing, for the whole point is that the will refuses to permit the intellect to admit the truth because the will has rebelled against this particular good.

I suspect our readers will see this, now that I’ve pointed it out: Rationalization is what the intellect does when the will commands it to turn away from some good that grace has enabled it to apprehend.


Love, angele


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Unconditional Love


In the secular world, there is a saying " There is no free lunch in the world"
which means nothing comes free in the world
For anything that we give out, we always expect something in return
But in the spiritual world that we are so blessed with..there is NO small print, no hidden T&Cs to obtain His love.
Now what more can we ask for? (:
Love, angele

Sunday, February 27, 2011

More tips on how to be a facilitator =)

Heeeaalloooooooooooooooooooooooww,

I miss all of you! Although I'm far far away...I'd still love to contribute =p I just went for a workshop and part of it gave some really useful tips on how to tackle common group situations.

As facilitators, we need to keep to time and try to complete the task at hand with our group, but what's more important is how you make your group mates feel after the activity. Would you want them going away saying "wow, I felt that was edifying" or "man I hate sharings! Why did I even come?!". It's very much to do with the process and how we respond to non-ideal situations. In reality...ideal situations hardly happen haha!

1. Let your group know...
Sharings will be more rewarding if there is participation from everyone.
No ideas are stupid.
It is purely each individual's perspective.
If an individual has nothing to share, then just share with the group that there is nothing in mind to share yet. =) Some people need more time to think about things.
Let everyone agree that the sharing is confidential.

2. LISTENING
This really is about observing non-verbal cues as well. If someone is not contributing, but you see that they are following the discussion, then leave them be. Some people like to contribute when they think they've got the right answer. If someone is not contributing and is not listening, don't pick on them!

*One technique to help with this is to ask them to chat in pairs. They do not have to share their answers with the whole group (let's say >5) if there isn't a need to. It's just to get them thinking and getting comfortable with talking about things. Some people are more willing to voice their own ideas with less risk of embarrassment.*

*another technique is to give your group a piece of paper each to jot down their thoughts. Give them enough time to mull over the question. Ask them to share just one of the many answers on their paper.*

Remember the aim is to get people comfortable.

3. TRUST
It is through our welcoming actions and NOT picking on them that we gain their trust. To prove that we are not there to be against them, or to cause any reason to put up their defences.

4. LEADERSHIP
Do know that as a leader, you are not there to do most of the work. If there are 5 people in the group then you will contribute your 1/5 of the work to make the group work. Let the rest know that the group needs their participation too. Setting up simple and agreed "ground rules" (Stuff that will help make the group work) as mentioned in point 1. will help to facilitate the group. Then you can remind them "Do you remember what we agreed on to make this group work?" , if they go wayward/disruptive.

If you get a talker -- someone who "knows it all" and likes to talk, giving no one else time to share their thoughts; teach the talker to be sensitive to the others.
*Technique 1: Cut in when he/she is taking a breath to say "Thank you (name) for your thoughts. (Another name) what do you think/feel about... " OR "Thank you (name), you have contributed a lot, let us hear from the other group mates on what they think."
*Technique 2: Give sweets each time to anyone who responds. If someone is getting all the sweets, jokingly say "Oh you need to give others a chance!"

If you have the peacemaker...someone who thinks disagreement is failure, then let your group that it is ok to disagree. Help the group develop simple rules for disagreeing. Conflict occurs naturally in a healthy group. It is when there are different views that we get a better perspective of things.

Keep checking that everyone is on board...on the same page. If not, check out what has happened to them. Where have they been? Are they feeling well?

Let each individual know that their contributions has impacted on the group. Eg: Thank you (name) and (name) for your sharing, we now have a better understanding of (topic). OR thank you (name) for cracking us up with your jokes, it made the group much livelier!

Remind everyone that each one has a responsibility of making the group work. =) Do not ever let anyone walk away saying "I knew it was a bad idea" or "see... I told you I was right" when things go wrong. If things are going wrong and they can see it, let them make a change!
Don't allow them to look at their sinking group and laugh.
If the current step is wrong, don't move on to the next step and let the problem build up.

5. EVALUATION
Do a self reflection. Did I help make everyone feel comfortable and welcomed? Did my group mates feel like they contributed? What could I have done better to facilitated the group?
If appropriate, how did we as a group do? What could have been done better?

Other tips to note...
As the leader or facilitator, take the question (or challenge) from the questioner, and post it to the whole group for ideas. Eg: "What do the rest of you think?" OR "What should we do with this?". Try not to answer it by yourself immediately.

Never ever comment "OH we tried that before, it didn't work!". Let the person explain his/her ideas fully before interjecting. Also, if it did not work...why did it not work? Explain to the rest. Could it be improved on?

Take home questions...
When you hear common phrases like "It's always the same people doing the work!" OR "They will not come even if we announce in the bulletin"...Why is it so?
Hope this would be helpful for all of you aspiring to be facilitators =) I found some of the suggestions very handy and useful!

God Bless,
Fran

Monday, January 03, 2011

God is Love

Hey all, would like to share a very meaningful passage that spoke to me.
This is actually the first reading for tmr (Tues after Epiphany):

A reading from the first letter of St John (4:7-10)
God is love

My dear people,
let us love one another since love comes from God
and everyone who loves is begotten by God and knows God.
Anyone who fails to love can never have known God,
because God is love.
God's love for us was revealed
when God sent into the world his only Son
so that we could have life through him;
this is the love I mean:
not our love for God,
but God's love for us when he sent his Son
to be the sacrifice that takes our sins away.

God bless,
Charlene